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Diaspora… Lamay Bora? *long read*



April 3 -

I got to spend the whole day with Lulit, who lived in Ethiopia for one and a half years. Background on her, she’s family, who I’ve never got to spend time with “for real for real.” We randomly talk via social media here and there and her energy spoke volume  (based on what she shared). I can’t say how much of a blessing it is to “meet” someone who’s such a breath of fresh air. I was told we look alike which is a complement since she’s absolutely beautiful! She’s the Lynn to my Joan (I don’t know who Maya and Toni are).  

She is in the process of starting up a center in the neighborhood that we grew up in. And her vision for the place is just so incredible I’m so proud to be a part of it. Check out her website to get the full details on the place, the history and the vision.

So needless to say today was an absolute adventure. I met her in Bole which is like the Americanize part of Addis. We went to a café to eat and I saw how local Lulit got when the server didn’t come to our table and she went and had to talk to them… I’m gonna get there one day. After got out picture taken by a playground by a guard who was pretty awesome he even included his index finger in a few of the shots lol. Funnies moment wasn’t even that passing cars were making comments one asked if we were taking pictures for facebook and she told him it’s for him, then a guy tried to hit on her by asking if they could take a selfie. Priceless!!! 



Then two diasporas tried to take a cab to Piassa which was impossible since all the ones that came were full so then came Sheger, one of the newer buses in Addis. It was going where we needed to go so we got on and made our way there.  I got a hard hit of where we are as a county on there. An older lady came on the bus (old enough to be my mom) she was about to sit on the floor and not one single youngen got up. I took pride on our culture for the longest saying how respectful we are to our elders, and for us in the States we still live in it since that was what we knew. With the new updates to the country this is one of the things that I guess has decreased. My heart hurts a little.

Going on we went around our childhood neighborhoods with my two amazing tour guides who have shown me around Addis since I’ve arrived. While we knew we were family they knew exactly how.

At the end my cousin was telling me how I have such a wonderful friend and how great she is for adapting to her surroundings. He asked me how long we’ve been best friends I told him we’re family and that this was my first time hanging out with her. He found it hard to believe. It’s almost understood that when we’re family we’re family.


Can you tell how excited I am? More adventures to come.

Our new ride


We look serious with that walk 

She took a picture of me taking a picture



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